We had that discussion yesterday with a few girlfriends, during a nice "café et gâteaux" meet on the lake side, about what is big, and when does it get too big to be let in.
What do you think?
My position was that we have been made to accept any size of cock and should always be up to the challenge to welcome the biggest possible one ... At least inside our pussy.
A friend said that she enjoyed even going larger and lived to fist herself and let her man do it to her. Which I am not ok with even though I tried it years ago. Once.
Another one said that she was so tight that her husband's "standard" size was very ok for her.
But we managed to convince her to try bigger dildoes.
Of course anal was mentioned too....